How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 10:35
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Hangs out with loser friends.
What are some reasons why some men choose to live alone instead of getting married?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Do you think cheating is that bad?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
In your humble opinion, why does the narcissist mistake kindness for weakness in some people?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why does Islam give a bad vibe?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What is one thing which you cannot stop however hard you try?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
What I need from you?
Did Obito ever fully redeem himself in everyone's eyes?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Nicotine Has a Bad Rap. There Might Be Some Very Good Health Uses for It. - Slate Magazine
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Weather makers: How microbes living in the clouds affect our lives - BBC
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What is the best sex you have ever had (in detail)?
Procrastinates a lot.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why are women attracted to ugly guys?
Ask yourself:
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What is your opinion about homosexuality? Do you think that it is by nature or a choice?
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What is some information about unprotected sex and pregnancy?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Why do some of those who believe in a god refuse to consider the possibility they could be wrong?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
That's it for today.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.